Being a victim of abuse, the abuser will not want you to expose their nefarious deeds for all the world to see. They do not want you to have a voice much less speak out against them. Part of our healing is learning that we do, indeed, have a voice and are allowed to speak the truth about the cause of our hurt. Speaking the truth sets us free from all the abuse that was incurred upon us during our life. Keep on speaking the truth. Then and only then can our healing begin.