This is really true. Since I started my healing journey I have initiated NO CONTACT with all my negative, toxic family members. They don't care to give a damn about my healing journey much less support me. I don't have to listen to their absurd crap anymore. And because I don't, my life has been all the so better.
You see, I started to work on my abusive past and started to speak out against it. And because I have and still do that, no one likes that I'm doing that because I'm bringing a ton of stuff out into the open. No one wants me to do that. As a result, I can't even tell you all the crap they are saying about me. And I'm not going to even bother for it's not worth my time anymore.
They think I've flipped my wig, gone wacko, and other such crap. I've been attacked because I talk about what's going on with my healing journey, talk about who has done what with me, and WON'T BACK DOWN. As one of them put it, "all you talk about is you". Yup, I sure do because for 40 years, I COULD NOT FOR FEAR OF RETALIATION, BACKLASH, AND LOSS OF MY FAMILY. NO MORE.
All of them REFUSE TO SUPPORT ME. And when I mean all of them, I mean ALL OF THEM. IT'S MY HEALING JOURNEY, NOT THEIRS. WHEN THEY GO GET COUNSELING FOR THEIR OWN ISSUES AND START GAINING SOME UNDERSTANDING, THEY WILL REALIZE THAT THE CRAP THEY ARE THROWING AT ME IS HURTFUL, SPITEFUL, AND PURELY TOXIC AND MEAN.
TO YOU IN MY FAMILY THAT CAN READ THIS, YOU CAN PASS THE WORD ON: I'M HERE AND I'M HERE TO STAY. I'M NOT GOING TO BACK OFF WHAT I'M DOING NOR WHAT I'M SAYING. YOUR DAYS OF THROWING NEGATIVE CRAP AT ME IS OVER AND I WILL NO LONGER TOLERATE YOUR CRAP.
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You see, I started to work on my abusive past and started to speak out against it. And because I have and still do that, no one likes that I'm doing that because I'm bringing a ton of stuff out into the open. No one wants me to do that. As a result, I can't even tell you all the crap they are saying about me. And I'm not going to even bother for it's not worth my time anymore.
They think I've flipped my wig, gone wacko, and other such crap. I've been attacked because I talk about what's going on with my healing journey, talk about who has done what with me, and WON'T BACK DOWN. As one of them put it, "all you talk about is you". Yup, I sure do because for 40 years, I COULD NOT FOR FEAR OF RETALIATION, BACKLASH, AND LOSS OF MY FAMILY. NO MORE.
All of them REFUSE TO SUPPORT ME. And when I mean all of them, I mean ALL OF THEM. IT'S MY HEALING JOURNEY, NOT THEIRS. WHEN THEY GO GET COUNSELING FOR THEIR OWN ISSUES AND START GAINING SOME UNDERSTANDING, THEY WILL REALIZE THAT THE CRAP THEY ARE THROWING AT ME IS HURTFUL, SPITEFUL, AND PURELY TOXIC AND MEAN.
TO YOU IN MY FAMILY THAT CAN READ THIS, YOU CAN PASS THE WORD ON: I'M HERE AND I'M HERE TO STAY. I'M NOT GOING TO BACK OFF WHAT I'M DOING NOR WHAT I'M SAYING. YOUR DAYS OF THROWING NEGATIVE CRAP AT ME IS OVER AND I WILL NO LONGER TOLERATE YOUR CRAP.
I love Snoopy Wisdom!