This is so true in my life. My mistakes are pointed out all the time by everyone EXCEPT for my husband. Since going to my new Trauma Therapy Class (For sexual abuse, rape, etc., I have come to find out that EVERYTHING that has gone on in my life is because of the Trauma that was bestowed upon me when I was a little girl. I when I mean everything, I mean EVERYTHING... from drug addiction, to not keeping a perfectly clean house, to getting over my depression, is because of the Trauma that has been in my life for 42 years.
There's no such thing as "get over it" or "you should have let all that go by now.... what's the problem?" and so on and so on and so on. When a child is traumatized and doesn't get the help they need to get over that trauma, they spend their entire life trying to get rid of that trauma by any means possible. All with disastrous results: loss of respect from family, friends, and loved ones.
Well, for all those that have experienced some kind of trauma in your life, find someone that can help explain to you what trauma does in your life and will give you the tools and the means to overcome this. Then and only then, can we all be set free.
There's no such thing as "get over it" or "you should have let all that go by now.... what's the problem?" and so on and so on and so on. When a child is traumatized and doesn't get the help they need to get over that trauma, they spend their entire life trying to get rid of that trauma by any means possible. All with disastrous results: loss of respect from family, friends, and loved ones.
Well, for all those that have experienced some kind of trauma in your life, find someone that can help explain to you what trauma does in your life and will give you the tools and the means to overcome this. Then and only then, can we all be set free.